A Compass

To be completely woman you need a master, and in him a compass for your life. You need a man you can look up to and respect. If you dethrone him it's no wonder that you are discontented, and discontented women are not loved for long. ~Marlene Dietrich

This quote is so true! Pixie and I have talked about this many times, when we are with someone who isn't strong enough for us, to truly guide us, attitudes turn negative and sometimes nasty. I'm not the kind of girl to 'top from the bottom' but sometimes I do need to test the waters. I have to make sure that the person I am involved with, has a strong enough sense of self to stand toe-to-toe with me. I don't like guys who bend their will all the time, completely surrendering to whatever I want them to do. Sometimes it is important to compromise, but at his timing, not mine.