Random Thoughts Inspired by Ceasar Millan.
Calm assertive energy.
The absence of a pack leader breeds insecurity obsession and a need for control. One that sets boundaries, limits, and guidance can fix this.
Overly aggressive men produce aggressive energy. This will increase uneasy energy in the submissive one, causing her to withdraw and feel guarded. When a Man is giving off different energy, calm assertive energy, will allow me to be curious at His energy and able to approach in a stable manner. Without feeling the need for 'protection'.
In the absence of a 100 percent leader, the submissive one will seek to fill what they see as a vacant role. The girl will ignore the owner or act out in other ways. This is the beginning of giving control to her.
A girl will respond to your calm, assertive energy by balancing it with a calm, submissive state.
The pack leader also uses this calm, assertive energy to set rules, boundaries and limitations for how she interacts with her surroundings.
The pack leader doesn't project emotional or nervous energy. If you don't set rules, boundaries and limitations in calm, assertive ways, she will not respect you.
I need calm submissive state to sleep. This isn't a want -- this is a need. If I can't reach that calm submissive state, I will not allow myself to rest enough to actually sleep.
I know that Ceasar Millan works with animals but I feel it works with submissives too.
We are women, and want, truly, with everything in our hearts and bellies, to be women, and we cannot be women truly if men are not truly men! Lay down the whip, and we will attack you, and undermine you, and use your own laws, institutions, and rhetorics to destroy you, inch by inch! Lift it, and we will lick your feet in gratitude.
Own us, dominate us! Enslave us, properly, so that we may love you as women are meant to love, wholly and irreservedly, totally, without thought of ourselves!" She looked at me, tears in her eyes. "Is it so wrong to want to be ourselves?" "~Renegades of Gor
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