Sexing up Fetlife: A Bit of a Rant

There is a new trend on FetLife that has had me wondering a few things for a while now.  Yes I understand that in the world of bdsm that sex plays a big part in the attraction of power exchange.  I don't want to get into the argument that there is more to Master/slave than sex because I truly feel there is.  

The purpose of this post is more about the curious inclination to posting pictures of the person posting the picture involved in an act of sexual intercourse.  Seeing various pictures of his cock in her pussy or her mouth swallowing his body doesn't do anything for me.  It doesn't tell me anything more about the poster, other than they finally had sex. :)  I'm the kind of person that thinks if you need to show proof you are getting laid, then you probably aren't. 

I completely understand that everyone has their own kink and I embrace the fact that everyone has the right to do whatever they want (as long as it follows a few universal no-nos [like children or true non-consent]), but I'm not sure how much thought went into a young mother of multiple children posting pictures of her being gang-banged by at least four guys-- hello your face is showing!  Does anyone realize how a conservative court system can rope that into calling in DCS because someone is an unfit mother?  For crying out loud, if President Clinton can't get his dick sucked in peace, what makes anyone else think they can post pictures without consequences?

I guess I just get frustrated when people want to know where my sexing pictures are and why aren't they posted "like they should be".  To me sex is intimate and private, a personal exchange of desire between two people.  I'm not much of an exhibitionist. 

That being said, I'm far from a prude!  Trust me, there is nothing I enjoy more than cock worship, but I'm not about to post any pictures of me doing it!  I'd rather He be enjoying how it feels than worrying about focusing the camera. 

I love this picture, but it isn't me ;)